Went cathay and played L4D and TF2.
Ate dinner at Chicago's Steak House.
It was really expensive and they a lot of food but I just couldn't finish.
They were seriously understaffed so I just went in and sat my butt down.
Watched the Informant.
Worst movie I have EVER seen.
Waste of time.
The guy is a uuuuuuu lunatic.
I want to shoot him in the head.
And they made Matt Damon look from bad to worse.
Went home.
On the bus I saw this interesting-looking man.
I think he was a bartender as he was wearing those things I see bartenders on the internet wear.
Those black apron thing that have wide straps instead of laces.
I think it is called a waistcoat.
Yes, he was wearing a leather or maybe those shiny nylon kind of thing waistcoat.
He was an ang moh.
I think for "Westerners", "Europeans" are not accurate as they could be from USA or Australia or NZ, "Westerners" are not accurate too because Australia and NZ are east, and "whites" seem derogatory like "blacks", so "Ang Moh" has a local flair but it may be a bit informal.
We truly need a new word to label them that is both accurate, formal and not derogatory.
He was obviously around 30s or 40s because he had grey hair.
But the interesting thing was that it wasn't white until you think that he is an old man.
It is like when you look at him you think he is normal age.
(PS I think normal age is 20s to 30s. And adults are kinda over the hill)
But if you think about it he is a lot older.
His hairstylist should be given an award.
Because he had such short hair that at first you wouldn't notice that he had bald patches and his hair was scarcer than normal people.
He also had widows peaks but because of the very short hair it was toned down.
He also had this fold line on his forehead when he looked up, high-cheek bones and concave lower cheeks.
And this small mustache that had the tips cut off so it had flat ends.
So anyway I thought why don't people ever talk to other people on the street?
Like why don't people go door to door in their neighbourhood or block and get to know the people there.
Just knock the door and say "Hello, may I ask what is your name? I live ..."
Also now I seem to crave learning other people's modern way of life in other countries.
I still love scenery and to a lesser extent history.
But wouldn't it be nice to know the education system, eating habits, transport system and other aspects of life.
Like I bet you didn't know only Asians, especially SEAs, use bolsters for hugging.
And lets say you can't turn to your family any more and your relatives go iiiii on you...
I don't think I will turn to my friends.
I would just go to a random person's house, be it met on the internet or knocking randomly on people's doors, and say "I have no where else to go. Can I stay here for the mean time? I am studying at a university and will pay everything back to you later. OR I have a job and will pay for my expenses until I can get my own house"
This is especially so if you pack up and go overseas.
So anyway I knew I kept wanting to talk to random people but am too chicken to do so.
So I promised myself that if he stopped at my bus stop I will talk to him.
But sadly he stopped 2 stops earlier and I alighted the bus with two local Indian men.
For some reason foreign people seem more friendly than locals.
Okay not friendly.
Everyone is friendly.
But locals will think who is this person?
And will send me to the nearest police station.
Or they will have a kia si kia su thing where they are extremely suspicious of strangers.
I guess I too have that when I answer phone calls from people taking surveys and ask for your name.
I would never give them my name.
But I might give people I meet on the street my name...
And foreigners are more of "wow that's interesting"
They do not immediately say I am crazy because they have this "outside" feeling where you feel you really don't know a place.
So even if you lived in a new place for a year you would still accept a random person talking to you as "wow I didn't know the locals here approach people and talk to them for fun"
And on a separate note I feel that old people above 50 and maybe above 40 too are too experienced.
They know the "correct" thing to do.
They will always seem to think you are strange and maybe would call the police to stop harassing them or tell them that they found a lost crazy person.
Also, they say females are more friendly.
But I am not so sure about that.
Sure, they are less dangerous people.
They are rarely, murderers, rapists, pedophiles, child labour boss, mafia boss, gang leader, etc...
But they tend to the old people.
They are more organised.
"A random person talks to me, I would be friendly but I would remain cold and try to get away or strike a conversation but remain detached in an attitude of I met this person today, it was fun talking to him but I don't remember him now"
Men are more amiable.
I think there is a greater chance that one would let me live in.
Like PW said, guys need someone to boss around.
Women are like cylinders on a flat base while men are like balls, npi.
It's easier to push them around or convince them to do something.
Maybe because they are "Haverfords" "a name synonymous with jackass"
I need to stop quoting TKM.
Men are like let's go there, okay.
Women are like let's go there, I don't know I really wanted to go somewhere else, vote, think of alternatives, pros and cons...
But either way women still have better and less awkward friendships.
I think this is more of a disability for men.
But whatever, it makes them more amiable so something you say.
Although half of them are rapists, pedophiles, child labour masters, mafia boss, gang leader, parang wielder, etc...
So you need to be able to judge people better...
There are 4 types of random strangers that you meet: females, men who are friendly, men who are criminals or people with criminal intentions, people who are overly suspicious and men who are not interesting company.
So you need to get the friendly ones.
People who are overly and rightly suspicious are thinking "wtf? who is this person talking to me and wants to get away from you" or thinking what a strange person.
The former tends to be younger while the latter tends to be for older people.
People who are not interesting company are not interesting company..
What more is there to say?
Okay fine, they are those boring people who like talking about nonsense that you are not really interested in and they talk with this aura thing.
It is like how is the weather?
And once you know each others views on the weather, there is nothing more to say.
There is no connection and you just move on not seeing or recognising that person again.